Discover A More Human AI Approach || 🎤 The Lie of Not Enough on Episode 6 with Mark McCartney


Hi Reader,

Most people use AI to write faster, I ended up using it to slow down 😅

Recently, many emails sound similar — same structure, same words. I find myself skimming through sentences, filling in the gaps. Basically not reading properly.

Luckily, for my book-writing process, I had started to work with AI in a peculiar way: asking it for its tough love when reviewing my content — instead of writing it for me. Applying this collaboration to emails, I learned that I was misreading them, projecting assumptions, missing what people were actually saying. I also have a tendency to bury important messages below layers of courtesy instead of getting to the point.

Proper tough love!

While this way of working with AI is costing me more time, it has surely saved several relationships already! It slowed me down and invited me to re-read emails that I had read through my blurred perspective. Instead of sending an email with a counter-argument, I ended up thanking the sender and agreeing with their suggestions....

How can you use AI in a way that it makes you more human, not less?

🎤 Waiting for you on the Unprofessionalism podcast:

Mark McCartney left a 15-year career in finance, traveled Peru for a year, and started asking everyone he met: what is a good life? His answer is disarmingly simple — pay attention to what fills you up. And be yourself. That's it.

We got into boundaries as an act of compassion, why agreement is overrated, the grief we never process at work, and why real vulnerability isn't your rehearsed trauma story — it's the subtle, unremarkable thing you say in the moment that reminds everyone they're sitting with a human being.

If you're looking for more inner coherence between who you are and who you perform to be, this one's a gift.

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That's it from my side. I hope you enjoy my conversation with Mark and find inspiration to become a bit more unprofessional yourself. I wish you patience to write more human emails with the help of AI. Hope to see you next week!

Myriam

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