I'm a recovering academic who uses her insights from behavioural economics to develop methods that facilitate collaboration. In my weekly newsletter, I share the summary of my latest interview on the "workshops work" podcast along with an application of facilitation as a life and leadership skill.
The power of saying it once || 🎙️ Episode 320 on Facilitating with the Brain in Mind
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Dear Reader, Last week, I facilitated a two-day training in French which is not my native language. Most of my work happens in English, where I feel nimble - quick to rephrase, expand, adjust my words on the fly. While I am fluent in French, I don’t have that same agility. To prepare, I spent my evenings binge-watching Netflix in French - to prime my subconscious brain while sleeping. Still, by day, without my usual vocabulary at hand, I had to keep things simple. One explanation, not five. One way of saying it. Embracing the full-stop and subsequent silence. Surprisingly, it was that limitation of mine that made all the difference. When I left blanks, the group stepped in. They paraphrased, clarified, added their own thinking. The conversation became theirs — not because I designed it that way, but because the group felt the space to own it. In a strange way, my limited fluency gave the group more space to think and act. And now I wonder: how often do we over-explain not for their clarity, but for our own comfort? What happens when we let our words do just enough - and then stop? 🎙 Meanwhile, on the podcast…Helping people to do their best thinking, is Amanda Cookson. A coach, facilitator and all-round neuroscience whizz, she’s made it her mission to help leaders better understand what it means to be human. And it all starts with our own thinking-feeling, wildly brilliant, untamed brain! She guides us through its inner workings with effervescence and passion, showing us how to work with it – rather than against it – steer pulse-quickening conversations towards oxytocin, and design experiences that help rewire the brain for real, lasting change. An energising, thoughtful conversation, full of golden mind-training nuggets to try in both facilitation, and life! Find out about:
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I'm a recovering academic who uses her insights from behavioural economics to develop methods that facilitate collaboration. In my weekly newsletter, I share the summary of my latest interview on the "workshops work" podcast along with an application of facilitation as a life and leadership skill.
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